The Most Requested Wedding Photos Couples Ask For (And How to Get Them Without Feeling Staged or Stressed)
- Mick Merriott
- Dec 9
- 5 min read
When you first start planning your wedding, one of the biggest questions couples ask is:
“What wedding photos do we actually need?”
It’s a fair question — especially in a world where Pinterest boards, Instagram reels, and endless inspiration galleries can quickly become overwhelming. As a wedding photographer in the North East, I hear the same requests from relaxed, modern couples who want beautiful photography without the stiff posing or awkward moments.
The good news?You don’t need a massive “shot list.”You don’t need to memorise trends. You don’t need to worry about missing anything.
Most couples want the same timeless, emotional, story-led images — but captured in a natural, candid, documentary style that lets them enjoy the day without feeling like they’re stuck in a photoshoot.
This guide breaks down the most requested wedding photos UK couples ask for — and how I capture them in a way that feels effortless, authentic and completely stress free..
1. The Natural, Candid Getting Ready Photos
Almost every couple says the same thing:
“We don’t want anything staged — just natural moments.”
And that’s exactly how I photograph the morning. No awkward posing. No fake interactions. No cluttered or chaotic shots.
Just real, warm, emotional storytelling.
Why these photos are so popular:
They capture anticipation and excitement
They show the “quiet” moments of the day
They document friendships and family connections
They create space for natural documentary moments
They help couples relive the emotions of the morning
Typical moments I capture:
Dress hanging by a window in beautiful natural light
Candid shots of makeup and hair
Bridal party laughter
Groom tying his tie / fastening buttons
Emotional moments with parents
The final reveal before leaving
These photos set the tone for the entire wedding gallery — and when taken in a natural style, they feel beautifully real.
2. The First Look (or the Walk Down the Aisle Reaction)
Whether you choose a private first look or stick to tradition, this is one of the most requested moments in UK weddings.
Why couples love it:
It’s emotional and incredibly real
It provides stunning storytelling moments
It helps calm nerves
It gives you both time together before the ceremony
For couples who don’t want a first look, the aisle reaction is just as powerful — full of raw emotion, connection and meaning.
How I keep it natural:
I keep my distance
I don’t direct anything
I let the moment unfold authentically
This is pure documentary wedding photography at its best.


3. The Ceremony Moments You Don’t See (But Love Later)
Couples often tell me after the wedding:“We didn’t even realise you captured half of these!”
Ceremony moments happen quickly, and you’re focused on each other — which is why they’re some of the most meaningful photos you’ll receive.
The most requested ceremony moments:
The walk down the aisle
Groom’s reaction
Parents’ reactions
Exchanging vows
Ring exchange
Candid shots of guests laughing or crying
The first kiss
Walking back up the aisle
I shoot it all naturally and unobtrusively so that everything feels real and true to the moment
4. Confetti (One of the BIGGEST Requests in the UK!)
The confetti shot is iconic.Bright, chaotic, joyful — and often one of the couple’s favourite photos of the day.
Why it’s often requested:
It’s high-energy and full of movement
It makes everyone smile
It creates natural, candid reactions
It looks incredible in sunlight or shade
How I set you up for the perfect confetti moment:
I help position guests for the best light
I encourage slow walking (not sprinting!)
I cue guests to throw upwards, not directly at your face
I keep moving to capture all the angles
Because while it looks spontaneous, it’s actually a beautifully orchestrated moment — without feeling staged.
5. The Candid Couple Portraits (NOT the Old-Fashioned Posey Ones)
This is the moment couples worry about most:
“What if we feel awkward?”“We don’t know how to pose.”“We just want it to look natural.”
You’re not alone — 99% of couples tell me this.
Which is why my approach is simple: no posing — just easy, relaxed movement that feels natural.
The most requested style:
natural style portraits
walking shots
laughing together
holding hands
golden hour magic
creative wedding portraits in beautiful light
Why couples love this style:
nothing feels staged
it reflects their real personalities
it captures emotion
it avoids “trapped in a photoshoot” stress
it looks timeless
You spend 10–15 minutes together, enjoying the moment — not performing for the camera.
6. The “Real” Group Photos (But Only a Few!)
Most couples don’t want stiff, endless line-ups anymore.They want a handful of meaningful family shots — and then they want to get back to the party.
The most requested group photos:
both immediate families
wedding party
couple with parents
one “everyone together” shot (optional)
That’s it.I always recommend keeping it short and simple and have an absolute maximum of ten different group photos.
Then the rest of the day is filled with documentary-style images of people interacting naturally — laughing, hugging, dancing, celebrating.
7. Golden Hour Portraits (A HUGE UK Trend)
Golden hour is the soft, warm light just before sunset — and many couples now specifically request this moment because the photos are absolutely stunning.
Why golden hour is so popular:
flattering, soft skin tones
warm and romantic atmosphere
dramatic, cinematic light
perfect for creative portraits
takes only 5–10 minutes
Some couples even tell me afterward,“That was our favourite part of the whole day — we finally got a moment alone.”
8. Emotional Speeches Photography
Speech photos are some of the most real and emotional images of the entire day.
Most requested speech moments:
laughter
reactions from family
emotional pauses
tearful moments
storytelling sequences
candid shots of guests
I shoot these documentary style — no disruption, no awkwardness
9. The Party Photos — Live, Loud, Full of Energy
UK couples LOVE fun, candid dancefloor photos — especially now that evening entertainment has become such a big focus of modern weddings.
Most requested shots:
first dance
wild dancefloor moments
friends jumping in
live band / DJ moments
sax player / drummer sequences
guests losing their minds in the best way
These are the photos couples replay over and over because they capture the spirit of the night perfectly.
10. The “Unplanned Moments” (Often the Most Requested — After the Wedding!)
These are the photos couples didn’t know would mean so much:
grandparents laughing
friends hugging
kids running around
emotional reactions
micro-moments between the couple
hands holding
expressions during speeches
quiet pauses nobody else noticed
This is documentary wedding photography at its purest — the photos that truly tell the story of your day.
How to Get These Photos Without Feeling Staged or Stressed
Here’s the secret your wedding photographer may not tell you:
The best photos happen when you forget about the photos.
To keep the day effortless, I focus on:
planning a relaxed timeline
working naturally in the background
guiding only when needed
prioritising movement over posing
capturing the emotional moments as they unfold
You don’t need to perform for the camera. You don’t need to be photogenic .You don’t need to pose.
You just need to be you — and I’ll do the rest.
Conclusion: The Photos Couples Love Most Are the Ones That Feel Real
The most requested wedding photos aren’t about trends or perfection — they’re about emotion, connection, and the moments that matter.
I’m a North Yorkshire & North East wedding photographer specialising in documentary, candid, and creative wedding photography — perfect for couples who want their story told naturally and beautifully.
If you’re planning your wedding in North Yorkshire, the North East, the Lake District or further afield, and you’re looking for photography that feels relaxed, genuine, and beautifully unposed — I’d love to hear from you.
My approach is all about letting you be yourselves. I capture the laughter, emotion, and fleeting moments that make your wedding uniquely yours through a blend of documentary wedding photography, candid storytelling, and creative wedding portraits.
Real weddings. Real moments. Captured naturally.
Get in touch to check your wedding date and let’s start planning how to capture your day.
























































































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